Tips for the Extroverted to be more Quiet and Reflective

As an extrovert, it can be a challenge to slow down, be quiet, and reflect. You may feel like you’re always on the go, always talking, always in the thick of things. But taking time for quiet reflection can be incredibly beneficial. Here are some tips for the extroverted to be more quiet and reflective:

  1. Practice mindfulness: Mindfulness is the practice of being present in the moment, and it can be a great way to become more quiet and reflective. Start by focusing on your breath, and bring your attention to the present moment. You can also try mindfulness meditation, which involves focusing on your breath and letting thoughts come and go without getting caught up in them.
  2. Find quiet time: Make time for quiet reflection, even if it’s just a few minutes a day. Turn off your phone, close your eyes, and just be still. You can also try going for a walk, taking a bath, or simply sitting in silence.
  3. Read: Reading is a great way to slow down, be quiet, and reflect. Find a book that you’re interested in, and get lost in the story. You can also try reading poetry, which can be a great way to reflect on your own thoughts and emotions.
  4. Write: Writing is a great way to process your thoughts and reflect on your experiences. You can start a journal, write a letter to yourself, or simply jot down your thoughts and feelings. Writing can help you understand your thoughts and feelings, and it can be a great way to reflect on your life.
  5. Take up a new hobby: Try taking up a new hobby that requires focus and concentration. This can be anything from painting, drawing, or sculpting to knitting, crocheting, or needlepoint. Hobbies that require focus and concentration can help you slow down and be more reflective.
  6. Practice gratitude: Gratitude is the practice of recognizing and appreciating the good things in your life. Start by listing three things you’re grateful for each day, and reflect on why you’re grateful for them. Practicing gratitude can help you slow down, be more present, and reflect on what’s truly important in your life.
  7. Connect with nature: Spending time in nature can be incredibly grounding and can help you slow down and be more reflective. Try going for a hike, taking a walk in the park, or simply sitting outside in the sun. Connecting with nature can help you feel more connected to the world around you, and it can be a great way to reflect on your life.
  8. Be kind to yourself: Be gentle with yourself and give yourself permission to slow down, be quiet, and reflect. Don’t be too hard on yourself if you struggle with being quiet and reflective at first. It’s a process, and it takes time to develop these habits.
  9. Seek the company of quiet, reflective people: Seek out the company of quiet, reflective people who can help you slow down and be more reflective. Surround yourself with people who encourage quiet reflection and support you in your journey.
  10. Find a mentor: Find a mentor who can help you develop your quiet, reflective side. Look for someone who has experience in this area, and ask for their advice and guidance. A mentor can be an excellent source of support as you navigate the ups and downs of being more quiet and reflective.

In conclusion, being quiet and reflective can be a challenge for the extroverted, but it can be incredibly beneficial. By practicing mindfulness, finding quiet time, reading, writing, and taking up a new hobby you will naturally slow down and improve the experience of life.



Tony Curl
Tony Curl
Tony has been a successful corporate leader for 30 years. He now works alongside leaders around the world, and at home in Australia, to maintain clarity on their vision and purpose, and helps map their way around their roadblocks and obstacles. Tony helps people take the steps in their lives to become an influential leader. The leaders Tony helps aspire to greatness, so if you are aspiring to greatness take steps today. Unless you take action on your goals, they remain a dream. Tony is a published writer and his work is featured at his own Coach "Curl" blog as well as other sites around the globe. Tony is the owner and founder of Think and Grow Business and coaches and trains effective leadership skills and capabilities and develops better leaders, who then build better and stronger business. His passion lies in helping people discover their greatness by raising their leadership ability. Yes, everyone can be a leader and everyone should see themselves as a leader. Be the inspiration for someone today and let your journey inspire you. He has a growing following on his Social Media channels and has been published on a variety of sites around the globe. His words get quoted and shared daily by that growing tribe. He shares under the hashtags #dailyfuel #breaktheshackles. He recently released his first book "Seriously Simple Stuff to Get You Unstuck". Available at


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