To become a good leader, you need to develop rapport with your team of employees and the clients and customers of their business. Rapport builds the foundation for trust to develop, and trust is the foundation of all great leadership.

Rapport starts with understanding others. It helps to ask questions, have a positive, open attitude, encourage an open exchange of communications (both verbal and unspoken), listen to verbal and unspoken communications and share positive feedback.

Here are important details on each step:

1. Ask Questions

Building report is similar to interviewing someone for a job opening or it can be like a reporter seeking information for an article. Relax and get to know the other person with a goal of finding common ground or things of interest. Have a genuine curiosity in learning about the other person. When we seek to understand, we tend to ask questions that support us in building rapport with others.

A genuine interest in others helps us find common ground and common ground supports our leadership. We learn more about others and the more we learn, the better we lead.

2. Attitude

Choose to have a positive attitude and leave negativity at home (or in a drawer, if you’re at home). Many people can tell instantly if you have a negative attitude or if you feel superior. So treat other people as you would like to be treated. And give each person a chance. Daily, choose your attitude, and make that the best choice for you.

3. Open Exchange

Great leaders encourage people to share. However, there are some limitations on how people share. Some people are shy, scared or inexperienced in communicating and welcome an opportunity to share. Some are mistrusting. To invite and open exchange, start with body language and verbal communication. Face the other person with your arms open, eyes looking into theirs gently (not glaring or staring), and encourage a conversation with a warm smile. The open and honest exchange will open happen when we have built trust with others.

4. Listen

Be an active listener. Don’t focus your thoughts on what YOU will say next. Don’t listen to respond, listen to learn and understand. Listen to what the other person is saying and take your clues from there, while also noting the body language.

For example, if the other person folds his arms and sounds upset, you may need to change the subject or let them have some space and distance; maybe even try approaching them later on and excusing yourself to go make a phone call. On the other hand, if the other person is leaning towards you, following your every word and communicating with you as if you were old friends, Congratulations. You’ve built rapport!

5. People like Compliments

So hand them out freely without overdoing it. Leaving a nice part of yourself like a compliment is a good memory for the other person to recall – numerous times. That’s good rapport. But be sincere! Be genuine. False compliments aren’t easily disguised and most people can see through them. Whether it’s in your language or your body language, false compliments are easily seen through and builds a layer of mistrust between you and the other person.

Building rapport is important in every aspect of life. In leadership, in business, in every day communication and life. Connecting with people, building rapport advantages us in life. What can you do to help build rapport?

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Tony has been a successful corporate leader for 30 years. He now works alongside leaders around the world, and at home in Australia, to maintain clarity on their vision and purpose, and helps map their way around their roadblocks and obstacles. Tony helps people take the steps in their lives to become an influential leader. The leaders Tony helps aspire to greatness, so if you are aspiring to greatness take steps today. Unless you take action on your goals, they remain a dream. Tony is a published writer and his work is featured at his own Coach "Curl" blog as well as other sites around the globe. Tony is the owner and founder of Think and Grow Business and coaches and trains effective leadership skills and capabilities and develops better leaders, who then build better and stronger business. His passion lies in helping people discover their greatness by raising their leadership ability. Yes, everyone can be a leader and everyone should see themselves as a leader. Be the inspiration for someone today and let your journey inspire you. He has a growing following on his Social Media channels and has been published on a variety of sites around the globe. His words get quoted and shared daily by that growing tribe. He shares under the hashtags #dailyfuel #breaktheshackles. He recently released his first book "Seriously Simple Stuff to Get You Unstuck". Available at strongerbraverwiser.com